Relationships with your significant other are amazing, but they take work. There’s no doubt about it.
As a married man for 3 years now, I know how easy it is to fall into the mundane existence that can be marriage.
Go to work. Come home. Cook. Watch TV. Sleep. Repeat.
It’s easy to get comfortable and lose that sense of excitement. It’s one of the reasons why over 50% of marriages end in divorce.
In this article I am going to share 19 things you can do with your wife to break the mundane and keep having those fun days/nights together. Like it’s your first date all over again.
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1. Take up gardening
There’s no better way to bond than to build something together, and create new life. Gardening is not only relaxing, but it’s an ongoing project that you both can take part in day after day. After a few months, you will see your transformation take form and it will be an amazing experience for both of you.
2. Take a cooking class together
Spice up date night by learning something new! Not only will you both get to explore a new type of cuisine, but it’s also a great opportunity to bond and create some yummy dishes along the way.
3. Have a spa day
What better way to relax than by treating yourselves (and each other) to some much-needed pampering? So go ahead, book those massages and make the most of spending time with your spouse while feeling refreshed and rejuvenated afterwards!
4. Go camping
Get out into nature and enjoy some quality time away from everyday life. Plus, there’s nothing like waking up in the morning and making a delicious breakfast together in the great outdoors.
5. Visit a museum
Learn something new while having fun together! Whether it’s visiting an art gallery or checking out some artifacts at a nearby historical site, you’ll both get to expand your horizons while enjoying each other’s company.
6. Check out a local concert
Live music is always fun! So grab tickets for your favorite artist and make sure to dance the night away with your better half.
7. Take a road trip
Hit the open road for an adventure that won’t be forgotten anytime soon! Get ready for lots of laughs, amazing views, and quality conversations while exploring destinations you’ve never been before.
8. Go on a shopping spree
What’s better than hitting up your favorite stores with the one you love? Whether it’s window shopping or actually buying something special, it’s sure to be an enjoyable experience!
9. Play board games
Relive some of your childhood memories by playing fun and classic board games together. And don’t forget about the snacks – popcorn and beer makes for the perfect game night pairing!
10. Attend a trivia night
Put your knowledge to the test and see who reigns supreme in this battle of wits! Plus, the bragging rights are yours if you come out victorious.
11. Take a dance class
Learn some new moves and have some fun while doing it! From the cha-cha to waltzing, you’ll be an expert by the end of your lesson and will have something new to do together in the future.
12. Play mini golf
Face off in a fun game of miniature golf and get your competitive juices flowing! It’s a great way to spend time with your spouse while proving who can take home the bragging rights.
13. Watch the sunrise or sunset together
Enjoy some peaceful moments by taking in the beauty of nature with your significant other. From watching a beautiful sunset over the ocean to catching a stunning sunrise at the beach, it’s sure to be an unforgettable experience.
14. Visit an amusement park
Feel like kids again as you explore all of the rides and attractions that await you! From rollercoasters to ferris wheels, there are plenty of reasons why you both should have an amazing time.
15. Go for a bike ride
Explore the great outdoors by hopping on some bikes and hitting up local trails! Not only will it be a great opportunity to get some exercise, but also a chance to admire the scenery while enjoying each other’s company.
16. Take up a new hobby together
Whether it’s learning how to paint or taking cooking classes, there are plenty of hobbies that you can take up as a couple! Try something new, practice together, and create memories in the process that you’ll never forget.
17. Go stargazing
Take a break from the hustle and bustle of life to admire the beauty of the night sky. Make sure to bring some blankets, snacks, and drinks – it’s a great way to relax and chat while taking in the stunning views above.
18. Have a picnic
Pack up your favorite lunch items and head out for an outdoor meal with your spouse! From sandwiches to salads, there are plenty of delicious options that can be enjoyed under the sun or under the stars (depending on where you decide to have your picnic).
19. Take part in a local event
Make sure to check out what’s going on in your area! Whether it’s a farmers market or a street festival, there are always plenty of activities and experiences you both can partake in.
Conclusion:
There you have it guys. There is no excuse to get caught in a mundane marriage. You have to put the effort in and keep the spark alive. These 19 activities will help you do just that. So make time for what matters most, and have fun.
